Blog

03Nov

Mistress skilfully balances my need for a severe thrashing… A Testimonial

It was just over 7 months ago that I discovered Mistress Eliza, and if you can see my initial thoughts on an earlier thread. My concluding comment on that first review was:

“Perhaps I should even consider begging her to allow me to play with her for slightly longer next time to see if she would be willing to push me even further when I am lucky enough to session with her again?”

Well, I did it, and have done it three more times in fact, the last time being only yesterday. My need for a very harsh beating hasn’t changed, but as we have bonded in our D/s play, the satisfaction I have gained from our play has increased even further. With familiarity I am totally comfortable in my submission, as I eagerly relax in to her inventive style of restraint and enjoy the progressive severity of her increasing array of CP weaponry.

Mistress skilfully balances my need for a severe thrashing without over-stepping the boundary by causing excessive lasting damage to the buttocks. She even inventively experimented by using a dampened thin cloth this last time to allow her to deliver more and harder strokes, without my skin being broken. I was taken exactly where I needed to be, by a caring lady, who also knows how to deliver discipline.

As I type this note I can feel my bruised bottom still throbbing and aching from her attention, but as with many spankees I always regret not having been taken that bit further, so that her cane strokes might be even more strongly defined this morning, and last as long as the vivid memory of our play inevitably will.

And that simply makes me wish to return and challenge both her and myself to push that envelope further when my next opportunity comes along, which I surely will do.

02Nov

Cage Time

I had a wonderful session yesterday that involved caging, water sports and humiliation.

I locked my client into my cage, face down, ankles and wrists hogtied. Under his face was a dog bowl containing my fresh pee and a slice of bread which I had thoughfully torn into small pieces and dropped into the bowl of pee. I informed him that there would be no release until he had consumed the contents of the bowl.

While he was consuming the bread soaked pee, I dangled my beautiful size 5 feet in front of him, knowing that he loves foot worship.

I gave him 10 minutes to consume my pee but due to being hogtied, he took longer, so corrective punishment was required. I released him from the cage and although I allowed him to worship my feet, every touch was accompanied by a hard lash from my flogger.

Then I had another surprise for him: due to drinking copious amounts of water, I had another bladder full of pee for him to consume, so I filled the dog bowl with pee again. This time, I threw some rich tea biscuits into it as a reward for doing some excellent foot worship.

If you’d like some caging, contact me to book a session.

14Oct

A Wonderful Experience!

I arrived at the venue to find a lovely house in a nice area with plenty of safe on-street parking! The house was immaculate and very clean with one of the bedrooms converted into a playroom.

Mistress Eliza is statuesque, slim and really beautiful and her tone of voice immediately demands respect and obedience! I had a shopping chore to do for her and on my return I was feminised and put to work in the bathroom. When finished I was taken into the playroom and punished with various implements and electrics for at least half an hour! I was then made to drink her nectar from a bowl. The taste was incredible and intoxicating!

I was eventually dismissed after a wonderful experience. Mistress Eliza is commanding but also caring and certainly knows how to dominate slaves in so many different ways!

12Oct

Caging with refreshments!

Do you enjoy caging? I like caging my subjects. Having you face down with your hands handcuffed behind your back. Then I put a large bowl of my golden nectar in front of you with a straw and instruct you to drink it all. Or maybe some bread soaked in my golden nectar for your lunch?

I might insert a butt plug into you while you are there. And I might top thebowl up with more of my golden nectar.

What’s not to like?

Birmingham Mistress Eliza

12Oct

My first visit to Birmingham Mistress Eliza

I visited Mistress Eliza for the very first time earlier today having been only once before to a Dominatrix at the beginning of the year. I came away from that first session not really having enjoyed it and wasn’t going to go down this road again. That was until I saw the reviews of Mistress Eliza so my curiosity made me contact her and I have to say I really want to return to her sooner rather than later if my budget will allow.

Without me having to chase I was emailed directions and instructions two days before my appointment which was very comprehensive and her email communication has been excellent throughout.

You know when the beer is good in a pub when the pub has no decor but the pub is rammed to the rafters because the beer sells without the need for luxury surroundings. In a similar way there is no authentic dungeon here but Mistress Eliza doesn’t need one. A simple bedroom with a St.Andrews Cross, Spanking bench and bed and instruments hung up on the wall mainly corporal punishment tools. Her dominatrix skills sell without the need for a fancy dungeon as she is such a professional in this field and I would much prefer a professional service rather than a state of the art dungeon but the dominatrix can’t send you into subspace.

I was nervous when I arrived as it’s not something I normally do but the premises is quite discreet and Mistress Eliza warmly welcomed me and immediately introduced to the Punishment Room and after a brief introductory chat I stripped off and Mistress Eliza secured me to the st.Andrew’s Cross where I was interrogated and flogged. Once I was secured her voice became rather commanding and was taking the role of interrogator very seriously. I discussed beforehand what I would like to happen and Mistress kept entirely to the script we agreed.

I kept my briefs on at the start because I asked Mistress at around the half way mark that she humiliates me by removing my briefs and made derogatory comments about my manhood and then continued flogging on both my back and buttocks. This was a most sensual experience to have my briefs pulled down from behind by an attractive lady.

She was wanting me to confess to masturbating to her online pictures without her permission but I rode the session out without confessing. Therefore when I do return I will be expecting a much harsher flogging and Mistress Eliza will for sure force the confession out of me. She was very lenient because of it being my first time with her and of course neither of us knew what my pain threshold was but now she knows I will be totally at her mercy next visit…..and I can’t wait!
Anybody new to this and is curious you don’t need to worry because as I say Mistress Eliza is so professional and whilst she sends you into subspace (which I experienced for the first time) I can also feel safe because she really has an awareness for the well being of her client and has rekindled my fascination for this service. Highly recommend!

22May

A session with sissy Sally

Martin, a.k.a Sissy Sally, had changed into her outfit. The dress was bright pink and white, dark pink, shiny stockings with diamantes round the stocking tops, shiny white patent stilettoes that Sally was teetering around on, and a nice pair of pink frilly panties.

Sissy’s first task of the day was to clean the windows. Well, it wasn’t long before those panties were down round her ankles, and she was bent over the chair, for her first punishment. Out came the paddle, as I reprimanded sissy on her cleaning skills. 20 strokes on each cheek, and sally was allowed to pull up her panties, and have an attempt at cleaning the skirting boards. She made very little effort, so was instructed to get out her sissy clitty, and several slaps with the crop later, she was sent home, panties and all, to practice her cleaning skills ready for next time.

22May

A fantastic role play session

Timothy arrived at the front door. I welcomed him and instructed him to go upstairs.

After our pre-session chat, he was instructed to undress and upon my return he was to be kneeling.

As instructed, there was a slightly nervous Timothy, kneeling awaiting further instructions. He stood up looking all bashful, his hands covering what was soon revealed as a tiny, shriveled cock.

This was his first time visiting a Mistress. But his headmistress had sent him, at a loss as to what to do with him following his many misdemeanours.

Timothy was secured to the spanking bench of course, saying he would behave in future. I was not swayed, and proceeded to warm up his pale buttocks with the flogger.

Slowly, slowly, I built up to the cane and 50 strokes of the best. His buttocks were pale no more, and after a few whimpers from Timothy, I did an extra 20 strokes in quick succession.

A fantastic session, thoroughly enjoyed by both of us.

22Apr

Technically perfect – a testimonial

I paid my first visit to Mistress Eliza in April 2024. My passion is for corporal punishment, particularly the cane. Although I had quite a lot of previous experience I had not done a session since re-locating to the West Midlands eighteen months ago. Wanting to ease myself back into the routine gradually I left Eliza to run the session as she saw fit.

I was treated to an extended warm-up with a wide selection of implements. This was followed by a lengthy caning using a variety of canes, applied in sets of strokes numbering between twenty and fifty. The sets were punctuated by use of a flogger. The whole caning was technically perfect in that it produced a series of perfectly parallel welts. Some of the cane strokes were quite painful but the caning as a whole was well within my tolerance. The skin on my backside was unbroken and I guess the marking will be substantially gone within a week or so

This was the sort of entry-level session that would give an absolute beginner a fantastic introduction to the world of corporal punishment. My advice to anyone who wants to try but is hesitant is to email Eliza and ask for an appointment. In my experience she is a thoroughly good professional, reliable and trustworthy in every respect. (She also replies promptly to emails!)

I am clearly not in a position to offer advice to an experienced player who may be looking for a change of scenery. However, I have reason to believe that Mistress Eliza would be only too happy to administer a much harder caning than the one she recently gave to me. I intend to test this theory sooner rather than later.

08Apr

Birmingham Mistress Eliza – a testimonial

I had the great pleasure of meeting Birmingham Mistress Eliza on Sunday 31st March (Easter Sunday). She is exceptionally desirable and was dressed in ideal clothing to administer the much needed Punishment.

I was shown to the punishment room upstairs and ordered to get completely undressed. It was more embarrassing than I had anticipated…..but I did as I was told.

After a few minutes Mistress Eliza re-entered the room and made clear that the punishment would begin.

I was secured to a punishment bench and warmed up with a flogger and a couple of other punishment instruments (carpet beater etc). This took a good while (perhaps 20 minutes or so.)

I was beginning to think (hope) Mistress Eliza had forgotten about the CANE (which was the main reason for my visit.) But she had not forgotten and I was properly, professionally and quite severely CANED on my bare bottom.

It was humiliating, embarrassing and very painful. To be caned on the bare bottom by an attractive woman is just awful……..exactly what I wanted and exactly what I had previously asked for by email and letter.

At the end of thesession, I was released and allowed to get dressed.

I thanked Mistress Eliza for the punishment and gave her some chocolates and shortbread that I had bought for her.

The session went very well. I found Mistress Eliza keen to do her best for me and was both professional and pleasant.

As I am old, the marks lasted quite a long time…….and my bare bottom was sore for several days.

I will happily return to Mistress Eliza and can recommend her to other folk needing punishment and similar services. Clients will not be disappointed I can assure you.

Just be careful what you ask for! Fantasising behind a computer keyboard is one thing. But being totally naked secured to a punishment bench and having ones bare bottom professionally caned is something else!

24Mar

A Disciplinary Delight

Twenty-four hours ago I was just bidding farewell to Mistress Eliza after a wonderful one hour session in the company of this lovely lady, who is based in North East Birmingham.

To set the scene, now in my late ‘50s, I have spent most of my adult life covertly seeking chances to receive discipline at the hands of a female dominant whenever an opportunity presented itself. This usually means only 2 or 3 sessions for me each year, so it is especially important to carefully choose a play partner who is right for my needs.

Put simply, what I ask is simply to be securely restrained and to have my backside severely beaten, and with no safe word to allow me to back out. This is what I conveyed by email to Mistress Eliza two weeks ago, and within a few of hours a date and time was agreed, a small deposit paid, and my anticipation started to build.

A couple of days before our appointment, excellent location details were provided, so yesterday my planned trip to meet Mistress Eliza went without a hitch.

I knocked on her front door a couple of minutes before the appointed time, and was welcomed over the threshold with a warm smile. My first impression was of an attractive, petite, middle aged lady, dressed seductively (but not promiscuously) from head to toe in black. It was a joy to see her face for the first time, and I can assure anyone who has only seen her masked on the internet that this must purely be for discretionary purposes, as her looks do not disappoint the eye.

I as immediately directed upstairs to her punishment room, where Mistress very quickly confirmed my requirements, and clarified that I was happy with the way that she planned to conduct our session. I presented the balance of my tribute, and she then left me to strip naked with an instruction to kneel awaiting her return.

The room/equipment was familiar from recent images on her website/twitter, but is in fact a small converted bedroom, which an estate agent might describe a ‘bijou’. There was, as I expected, the compact spanking bench, but I must admit at first sight I was not convinced that the attached restraints were going to adequately meet my request to be tightly restrained.

Mistress did not leave me long to ponder, as she returned to the room very promptly. Straight away I was instructed to assume a position over her bench and to my surprise after securing my ankles mistress proceeded to tightly wrap an industrial strength reel of packing film around my back and the bench so that I was securely cocooned.

My backside was now totally vulnerable, and I didn’t even need the wrist cuff to be used to give me that feeling of helplessness. For the rest of the hour Mistress hardly paused in the delivery of her punishment.

Mistress had already explained that her preference was to provide a long warm up so that later in the session I would be able to take a much severer and longer punishment than she would otherwise have been able to give me, and I instinctively trusted her and surrendered into what was to become a most fabulous experience.

The beating started with a long rhythmical flogging, so gentle at first, but gradually getting stronger as I relaxed in to her pattern of ever increasingly powerful strokes. Even when they started to hurt I was relaxed, knowing that I was being controlled safely and sanely, and taking me to that place I wanted to be.

The pain started to ratchet up as a strap, tawse, carpet beater, a range of canes and a sjambok were all used. Even if a safe word had been agreed on I would never have needed it as the gradual build up had sent me in to sub space, and I was floating somewhere it was going to take me hours to return from (and to be honest I am not sure that I am completely back at base yet).

Her discipline did cause damage (as we both understood it would) and for anyone interested Mistress posted a picture of the result of her efforts on ‘X’ (after seeking my prior agreement). This image accurately reflects the pain and discomfort I still feel one day on, but it is however testament to her skill that those marks are already fading. From my previous experience, my guess if that in four weeks it will be hard to see any trace of her marks, but I am sure that my memory of her play will linger much longer.

The whole session had been conducted in peace and quiet; very few words were exchanged once she was happy that I was heading along the way I wanted to be taken. Despite the controlled violence I would describe the whole experience at the time as serene, and my lasting thoughts are now of peace and satisfaction as I feel my body recovering.

Yes, the space where Mistress Eliza conducts her sessions is basic; the whistles and bells of a full dungeon set up are missing. Importantly for me Mistress is simply extremely professional rather than all show and no substance, and for what she delivered her tribute request is extremely reasonable. I would unreservedly highly recommend a visit to see her if you are looking for a similar experience to my own.

Now all I have to do is look forward to my next opportunity when I am able to visit her. Perhaps I should even consider begging her to allow me to play with her for slightly longer next time to see if she would be willing to push me even further when I am lucky enough to session with her again?